Here’s the Thing About Neurofeedback — Your Body Knows Before You Do

QEEG brain maps showing the neurological signature of burnout: excess slow waves, locked alpha coherence, and near-sleep activity recorded while awake.

My husband Scott was already working with Gabi, a neurofeedback practitioner, for his own reasons. At some point he told her what I was going through with adrenal fatigue. Her response was direct: she thought she could help. That’s how it started. Not with me deciding to try something new. With Scott advocating for me […]

What’s Really Running Your Team’s Performance: It’s What Nobody’s Saying

Team meeting where one employee is visibly disengaged while others speak, illustrating low psychological safety in the workplace.

I have worked in environments where my voice mattered, and ones where I learned, quietly and quickly, not to use it. Here’s the part nobody says out loud: the same leader can create both, and the difference between them is what psychological safety and team performance research is now measuring at scale. For most of […]

Why High Achievers Don’t See Burnout Coming. Until Their Body Makes Them Stop.

high achiever burnout signs leader at desk

High achiever burnout signs don’t look the way you’d expect. You’re not curled up in bed, unable to get dressed. You’re at your desk. Your calendar is full. Your output is strong. You’re leading meetings, hitting deadlines, and holding it together. Because that’s what you do. And then your body makes you stop. That’s exactly […]

Here’s the Thing About the Drama Triangle

three team members having heated discussion and appearing frustrated

Here’s a number that stopped me cold: mentions of “misalignment” in employee reviews surged 149% last year. Not a slow creep — a surge. Right alongside it, words like “distrust,” “disconnect,” and “miscommunication” climbed 24–26%. That’s from Glassdoor’s Worklife Trends 2026 report — and it’s not a small signal. Reactive leadership patterns are showing up […]

From Reactive to Creative: The Leadership Shift That Changes Everything

Woman leader in a moment of reflection

The shift from reactive to creative leadership is one most leaders don’t see coming — until the burnout, the conflict, or the disengagement makes it impossible to ignore. Here’s something I hear constantly, in almost exactly these words: “I know I’m reacting. I just can’t seem to stop.” And honestly? That’s one of the most […]

The Human Side of Feedback (Part 2): How to Receive Feedback When Your Walls Are Up

receiving Feedback sign

In Part 1 of our series, “Giving Constructive Feedback That Connects (Not Just Corrects),” we explored how to deliver feedback effectively, recognizing how often we approach these conversations with our own walls up. But what about when we’re on the receiving end? Let’s be honest: our walls are often up even before the conversation begins, […]